Together Forever by Kantor

By Kantor

A loving, lasting, devoted dating one of many maximum demanding situations that homosexual males face this present day is identifying to be in a long term devoted courting after which studying easy methods to make it paintings. Dr. Kantor busts the myths that exist within the homosexual group approximately relationships and provides homosexual males a version for fit, chuffed marriages (legal or not). research: -Why the destiny of your dating is extra very important than the overall healthiness and future health of your couch -Why you want to pick out dedication and paintings to make the connection robust -How to have solid, lots, and endlessly intercourse -The secrets and techniques of holding your guy, your mates and your loved ones satisfied (even ''difficult'' household) -Ways to prevent harm in your dating from 3rd events that do not have your top pursuits at center ''Peppered with hilarious proverbs, insightful quizzes and engaging anecdotes, jointly eternally is in truth fresh, and is going opposed to the grain of so much drained self-help books. you will research the paintings of the compromise and the way to really supply of yourself--without wasting yourself--for the sake of a pleased, devoted partnership.'' --Raeleen D'Agostino Mautner, PhD, writer of dwelling los angeles Dolce Vita Dr. Martin Kantor is a psychiatrist focusing on homosexual men's matters. he's the writer of My man. He lives together with his companion of twenty-two years in New Jersey.

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How about coming to my office soon so that we can have that talk? ” The next two weeks were like the hell of waiting for a biopsy report. If something needs discussing it’s kindest to discuss it now. Besides, if you postpone the discussion it’s likely that you will be saving and building things up only to hit him over the head with too much at once when it all comes tumbling out. One alternative to having a discussion is to try finessing a problem. Uncomfortable with being alone? Don’t complain that he stays too long at work.

Fact: Self-love detracts from loving another. The truth is that to love him you have to love him, and you have to love him before you can even think of loving yourself. Myth: Marriage keeps you from being you by interfering with your ability to maintain your identity as an individual. Fact: Maintaining your identity at all costs is just another word for being selfishly concerned only with your philosophy of life, your selfimage, your public image, and your ideals. Putting your identity first can 32 2/21/08 3:36 PM Page 33 Myths and Facts mean putting your relationship last.

Get a job, or get a pet. My blood pressure dropped ten points after we got our cat. So did Michael’s. There are, however, times that you cannot avoid a discussion and you simply have to talk about what is troubling you. If that is the case, when you do have that discussion, have the best possible one that you can. First try a simple exchange. Just calling what he is doing to his attention, saying the equivalent of, “Hey, what’s up? ” may be enough. Or just make your point on the fly, in twenty-five words or less, without making a big deal about things.

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